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What is Parental Burnout?www.grace-counseling.com

Yes, parental burnout is a real thing. It is so easy for parents to fall into a routine while neglecting to take care of themselves. The frustration, irritability, and lethargy sneak up without warning, resulting in self-shaming thoughts by the parent who begins to doubt his or her ability to handle this demanding job. In order to avoid the downward spiral of guilt and hopelessness, it is essential for parents to become familiar with the warning signs of parental burnout.

  1. You are easily frustrated or irritable. Every little incident seems to bother you regardless of how small or irrelevant that issue may be. In other words, you simply want to pull your hair out.

 

  1. You are overly exhausted. You may be saying to yourself “Of course I’m exhausted. I have a baby who won’t sleep!” Parenting and fatigue go hand in hand, and lethargy can additionally be related to other factors such as poor nutrition. However, if you notice tiredness coupled with frustration at the thought of parenting, parental burnout may be the cause.

 

  1. You experience feelings of worthlessness. Despite doing everything possible to ensure your children are happy and healthy, you still view yourself as a failure. This lack of self-confidence leads to even more sadness and perhaps anxiety as thoughts of inadequacy override any illustrations of success.

 

  1. You distance yourself from family and friends. As you go through the motions of fulfilling tasks for and engaging with your children, you feel withdrawn and often times disassociate. On the outside it appears as though you have a loving and close relationship with your children, while you guiltily feel disconnected from them on an emotional level.

 

  1. You feel overwhelmed with everyday tasks. The thought of running to soccer practice, then cooking dinner, doing homework, and then getting the kids ready for bed is too much to fathom. Guilt overcomes you as you dread completing the tasks you feel you should cherish as a parent. One unexpected hiccup in your daily plan causes you to feel as though everything else will unquestionably fall apart.

 

 

Parental burnout does not discriminate. While the signs are often more intense for single parents, parents of high-risk or disabled children, and those parents with limited socioeconomic resources, it is not uncommon for the burnout to attack those on the other end of the spectrum. It is imperative for anyone experiencing this misery to become aware of the signs and familiar with ways to reduce or even avoid parental burnout.

 

First, find some “me” time.

 

“As a parent, getting my kids to understand that when mommy needs time alone, she needs it. So I give them time where it’s all about them and then mommy has her day.” – Samone

“It was challenging for me when I realized that I was no longer able to just go and come whenever I wanted to. How do I manage this time? Who do I trust to watch them? How do I balance education and recreation? I learned that if I created “daddy time” I was more likely to be balanced and prepared to tackle any challenge. – Jason

The suggestion of “me” time is usually met with eye rolling or a frustrated shaking of the head; however, self-care is more important than any task you’re striving to cross off your to-do list. Whether it be 20 minutes of exercise, 30 minutes soaking in the tub, an hour of reading in bed, or 15 minutes of meditation and prayer, your mental well-being will improve if you make yourself a priority. Some find that even ten minutes of journaling can make an entire day more enjoyable. Remember, it is not selfish to take time out for yourself; on the contrary, it is potentially harmful not to.

 

In order to accomplish this goal, it is necessary to talk to your kids. Children are smart, resilient and much more understanding than we typically assume they will be. In fact, most children enjoy being a part of the “grown-up” conversation, and will happily help Mom plan that bi-weekly pedicure or Dad’s Fantasy Football guy’s night out.

An important addition to “me” time is “us” time. If you have a significant other and are in the throes of the parenting years, it is quite possible that you barely remember what it is like to gaze adoringly into your lover’s eyes over a candlelit dinner. While it may not be possible to enjoy those types as nights as frequently as you have in the past, it is beyond essential for you to make time for the two of you and your relationship… WITHOUT YOUR CHILDREN. Remember, when the kids have all grown up and leave you to wallow in that empty nest, your spouse will be left to wallow alongside you.

Second, build a support system.

“The most trying time for me as a parent was when my daughter was diagnosed with cancer at the age of eight. I had to be there for her while also attending to the needs of my two younger boys and my husband. I felt so overwhelmed and so alone, because I was doing everything on my own. It has always been hard for me to ask for help, and that was a time where I needed it the most. I had to be everything for everyone.” – Caronda

The old saying “it takes a village,” can be applied to parenting life on a daily basis. It is essential for you to embrace those people who support and encourage your journey and readily pitch in and lend a helping hand when you need one. You will know you’ve found your village when help is at your door before you’ve realized it was even needed. Many parents feel that seeking out a support system can be awkward and embarrassing; however, it is quite possible that you will reach out to someone struggling through the chaos of parenting just like you, hoping someone will reach out help make the pandemonium more manageable. Joining support groups in your area is a fantastic way to find those making their way down the same path you’re navigating, providing you with a validating reminder that you are not alone.

Third, do not be afraid to seek therapy.

“Because of my trauma as a teenager, I would fear becoming a parent. I remember wanting to do everything “right” when my child was born; however, I quickly learned that there is no such thing. I sought treatment in dealing with my anxieties and frustrations, and also found better coping strategies.” – Unanimous

While talking to friends and family about your doubts and struggles can certainly be helpful, it is oftentimes difficult to let all of your thoughts and feelings flow freely when talking to those you love. Seeking the support of a professional therapist allows you to leave the filter at the door and unload every stressful, guilt-ridden, unexplainable thought you’re having on an unbiased individual who is trained to help you untangle the scrambled messages flowing through your mind. By guiding you in the determination of specific stressors and triggers in your life, a mental health counselor can additionally aid you in discovering coping strategies which help make those seemingly overbearing stressors and triggers become manageable instead of intimidating.

Lastly, rest, hydrate, and eat well.

“I thought the reason I wasn’t feeling well was because I was so overwhelmed and depressed. I had no motivation to exercise, didn’t want to eat healthy foods, and just basically stopped taking care of myself. It took me a long time to realize that in order to stop feeling that depression, I HAD to eat well, I HAD to get a good night’s sleep, and I HAD to exercise.”

“There have been many obstacles on my journey as a mother, but I have found strength in taking care of myself spiritual, physically, and mentally. My husband was the support I needed. I also spent time journaling, exercising, but most importantly I turned to my faith and the community it provided.” – Michelle

Taking care of your body not only helps you feel better physically but impacts your mental health as well. A good sleep schedule allows you to start each day feeling rejuvenated and focused while staying hydrated and maintaining a healthy diet keeps your body running at full strength throughout the day. If you are suffering from depression, you may find that the thought of exercising or eating healthily sounds as exciting as a root canal… in fact, a root canal may sound more appealing to you as you wouldn’t be required to get up and move around. If this is the case for you, please seek the help of a mental health professional in order to address and alleviate these serious symptoms you are experiencing.

 

A FEW FINAL WORDS: You WILL mess up. You WILL doubt yourself as a parent. You WILL get tired of being a parent! Beating yourself up over these realities will do nothing but make you feel even worse. There is a reason why flight attendants instruct you to put an oxygen mask on yourself before those around you, and that is simply because you will be no good to anyone else if you aren’t prioritizing yourself first. Put on your mask and take a few deep breaths. Only then can you rescue the ones you love.

Impostor Syndrome: the Killer of Confidencegrace-counseling.com

In 2010, I was sitting across from a client, just starting a new job and collecting my hours toward my LPC licensure. As the session continued, I struggled to concentrate on what my client had to say. Thoughts raced through my head, “What if they realize, I have no idea what I’m doing,” “What if they realize, I’m a fraud?”

Fast forward to four years later, starting a new job, those type of thoughts come back. Only now I’m fully licensed, with several years of experience. “What if this new company, finds out I’m just winging it.” “What if they learn I’m a fraud?”

The rational part of my brain knows I know what I’m doing… but those irrational thoughts are stronger and they consume me.

What is going on?
Originally called impostor phenomenon, impostor syndrome, as it’s now usually called, is commonly understood as a false and sometimes crippling belief that one’s successes are the product of luck or fraud rather than skill. – Merriam Webster Dictionary

The term was coined by American psychologists Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes, who published an article called “The Imposter Phenomenon in High Achieving Women: Dynamics and Therapeutic Intervention” in the 1978 journal Psychotherapy: Theory, Research & Practice.

Earlier thought to only occur in high-achieving women, this experience is found to occur in everyone regardless of gender, race, socio-economic stasis etc… 70% of people will experience at least one episode of Impostor Phenomenon in their lives. Famous people like Tom Hanks, Emma Watson, Neil Gaiman, Maya Angelou, and Chuck Lorre have admitted to feeling like they would be found out for being a fraud.

So what does this mean for me and you… it means we are normal. We are not alone in these thoughts. When we are in new situations, it’s normal to feel insecure and unsure until you can get your bearings, it doesn’t mean you are unqualified or a fraud. It means you are Human and you are learning, growing and changing.

What can I do?
If the impostor thoughts are not addressed they can lead to anxiety, stress, depression, low self-esteem, guilt, and shame. Once they are addressed, you will not longer feel alone in your experience and are able to decrease your negative feelings.

Be Vocal: Tell a trusted friend, coworker, or professional about your feelings of inadequacy. Vocalizing your thoughts can sometimes help you realize how irrational or silly they sound.

Write Down Your Accomplishments: Make a list, check it twice, and keep checking it. Whenever you are feeling inadequate, add something. Sometimes on a really bad day, an accomplishment can be “I survived.” Don’t discount any accomplishment, no matter how small you may feel it is at the time.

Don’t Compare Yourself to Others: Recognize that you are you. You are unique. When we compare our lives to that of others we fall into traps of “my life sucks compared to ______.” No one’s life is the best, no one’s life is perfect. What are they not showing you? If you compare your life to others you miss out on your own life and your experiences.

Being Wrong Doesn’t make you a Fraud: We all make mistakes, we are human. Mistakes are necessary to learning life’s lessons. The knowledge retained from fixing a failure is remembered longer than doing “it” right the first time. Just think back to your childhood.

Take Action: It is impossible to be a fraud, if you are taking action. By taking Action and working through your thoughts, you are proving to yourself that you are not an impostor, you’re a doer.

Fake it till you make it!: Faking confidence does not make us a fraud. For example, faking a smile releases real endorphins in our brains increasing our mood until we are smiling for real. Faking confidence leads to real confidence.

AND REMEMBER YOU ARE HUMAN!!

How to Eat for a Good Mood

Nutrition plays a significant role in our mood. How we eat affects our brain function and blood sugar. Your mood will be more positive if you eat in a way that keeps your blood sugar steady and normal all day long. If your blood sugar is going up and down like a roller coaster, then your mood will be on a roller coaster ride too.

Your Brain Loves Glucose

Your brain likes to use the sugar in your blood as its fuel source. Another name for blood sugar is blood glucose. You may be surprised to learn that 65% of the glucose flowing in your blood is used by your brain.  So eating in a way that guarantees normal blood glucose will help your brain perform at its best.

Meal Skipping and Moodiness

How do you feel emotionally or physically when you skip a meal? I’m sure you will say grumpy, fatigued, or “hangry.” Research shows that a lower blood glucose can lead to aggression, frustration, tension, nervousness, or low energy.

So how should we aim to eat to support a normal blood glucose and good mood?

  • Choose balanced meals that are high in fiber.
  • A balanced meal has all three basic nutrients: carbohydrate, protein, and fat.
  • Fiber and protein slow down the digestion of your food. This slow digestion results in a steady release of glucose into your bloodstream.
  • A good rule of thumb is to never go longer than 5 hours during the day without having a meal or snack.
  • Listen to your hunger and honor it. Don’t ignore your hunger.
  • Most people feel best if they eat a meal or snack every 3-4 hours.

I’ve included my favorite green smoothie recipe. This is a mild-tasting smoothie that is an excellent source of natural carbohydrate, fiber, and healthy fat.

Tropical Green Smoothie:

1 cup frozen tropical fruit

(banana, mango, pineapple, papaya)

1 cup fresh baby spinach (packed into measuring cup)
1 tablespoon ground flax seed

1 teaspoon grated ginger

Water

Blend all ingredients together and enjoy!

Stasha Kucel MS, RDN, LD
Registered Dietitian and Nutrition Counselor

Contact Us for your Nutritional Counseling needs, Call 800.972.0643

Benton, David. “Carbohydrate ingestion, blood glucose, and mood.” Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews 26.3 (2002): 293-308.

Yamagata, Ana Sayuri, et al. “Selfish brain and selfish immune system interplay: A theoretical framework for metabolic comorbidities of mood disorders.” Neuroscience & Biobehavioral Reviews 72 (2017): 43-49.


5 Signs Someone You Know Needs Therapy

 

According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), almost one-fourth of Americans suffer from some form of mental illness, whether it has been diagnosed or not. Even more alarming, it says that one person out of every 17 is also walking among us with a major mental problem, for instance suffering from bipolar disorder or even schizophrenia.

With something like 20% of all teens suffering from some kind of mental problem and 18% of all adults experiencing moderate to severe anxiety trauma, it seems that a significant percentage of our overall society is lacking in basic good mental health. Most of the time this goes undetected though because all these individuals are still functional in their daily routines – so how can you tell if someone you know is really in need of help?

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No interest in favorite activities

When a friend or loved one exhibits diminished interest or no interest in events, objects, activities, or places that they used to love, this is a warning sign. A mental issue may or may not be at the root of this sudden disinterest, but if your friend can’t explain the change in attitude at all, there is at least cause for suspicion. It may be time to suggest that they talk to a professional.

 

Major life changes

Therapy and counseling are often needed by people who don’t really have any mental issues, but who are simply going through significant life changes. These include the death of a loved one, a divorce, loss of a friend, losing a job, or any sudden crushing event in their life which has a major impact on them. Even if there is no permanent damage to a person’s state of mind, they often need some help just getting through that phase in their life, and back on an even keel.

 

Substance abuse

Substance abuse is often triggered by some event or reason in a person’s life that goes undiscovered and unexplored, so the behavior persists. Therapy might help a great deal in fathoming that trigger and helping the person overcome what caused the substance abuse. This is especially true if the behavior represents a fairly sudden departure from their previous ways, and when you see this, you shouldn’t let it go on for long before intervening in some way.

 

Sickness with no physical symptoms

It can be extremely frustrating for someone who is actually suffering from mental illness to be told repeatedly by their physician that they are not sick, and there’s nothing wrong with them. It might also discourage them from seeking out any other kind of treatment, even though they can feel that something is amiss. If you have a friend or loved one in this state, be aware that such untreated conditions can carry serious consequences if not diagnosed.

Social withdrawal

You can usually tell the difference between someone who has an introverted personality, and someone who refuses to be involved with society in any way. This kind of withdrawal is not good for personal growth, and it may be a sign of mental illness. When it seems they are actually making a concerted effort to stay removed from others and be alone most of the time, it’s a sign they may need help.

 

Contact Grace Counseling of Lewisville Texas @ 800 972 0643

 

Grace Counseling Center Lewisville TexasBenefits of Outpatient Treatment Programs

Outpatient treatment centers provide a very valuable service to the communities which they’re located in, and to the individuals who travel to them seeking counseling and therapy. Some centers provide a very wide range of services, such as the Grace Counseling center in Lewisville, Texas, while others focus specifically on substance abuse or relapse prevention.

Depending on the center itself, services offered might include counseling for depression, anxiety, or trauma, family counseling, mental health counseling, binge eating counseling, couples counseling, group therapy, and even formal drug addiction treatment programs. But whether the service provided is a fairly straightforward continuing education program or an Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP), these treatment centers are a vital component of the health and wellness industry. Here are some of the most important benefits provided by outpatient treatment programs, and why you might want to choose one over an inpatient program.

 

Affordability

The unfortunate reality of medical treatment is that it’s often very expensive, and the cost of inpatient treatment could well be prohibitive to a given patient, whereas outpatient care is likely to be much more manageable. Since outpatient care does not include lodging, meals, and other residential kinds of service, it can be conducted much more affordably.

Privacy

For patients seeking discrete care, outpatient treatment may be the way to go, because it’s not necessary to reside at the center during treatment. In many cases, outpatient care is conducted in such a way that a patient can continue working, and carry on a more or less normal life without most people even being aware of the treatment.

Minimal disruption

Going hand-in-hand with the privacy advantage, is the fact that in many cases, someone under outpatient care can have minimal disruption to their life while still receiving quality treatment. There may of course be scheduling disruptions, but for the most part a normal routine can be balanced with the outpatient treatment program. There are even situations where outpatient care can be dispensed in a manner most compatible with someone’s existing schedule, for instance during evenings or on weekends. This can be a huge advantage to someone like a parent, who is obliged to carry on a regular routine away from the treatment center.

No isolation from family

Persons in need of outpatient care often receive the biggest support from family members, and someone enrolled as an inpatient loses this benefit, because they’re largely cut off from the external world. That’s not the case in an outpatient treatment program, and people trying to recover from addiction or some other kind of disorder, will still be able to have the benefit of their primary support network while going to the program.

Access to the recovery community

Even though virtually every city in America has an entire community built up of people recovering from various physical and mental disorders, it’s not always easy to make contact with these people to gain needed support after treatment. One of the big benefits of an outpatient treatment program is that contact information is available so that connections can be made between the recovery community and outpatient graduates wishing to join them.

 

Feel free to contact us by phone 800 972 0643 or through our contact page.  Let’s Get Started!

 

 

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Finding Your Patronus: Fighting Exhaustion, Anxiety, and Stress

To start, if you do not understand the Harry Potter reference to a patronus, let me give you a definition – it will be vital to understand the metaphor used in this blog.

A patronus is something that one can use in order to protect or shield oneself from things that are draining, fear and anxiety provoking, and overall atrocious (i.e. dementors in the HP books).

These draining and dreadful things can be people or scenarios – but their main aim always seems to be the same – to exhaust one of their happiness, clarity, and will to operate constructively and effectively.

I assume this description sounds familiar to you. We all experience people or situations that take everything out of us. Events that catch us at our most vulnerable and break us down farther than we anticipate.

So how do we combat these unavoidable or unforeseen feelings of unease, fatigue, and despair? We find our patronus. Something we can project, something we can utilize to simulate calmness, protection, and contentment.

Like in the Harry Potter books and films, each person has a unique way of producing this effect. It may be a hot bath, a comforting friend, a yoga posture, a meditation spot, a garden walk, a playlist, or a scent. There are multiple combinations that can be useful for different people in different ways.

What I propose is that YOU explore yours.

What can save you from falling into a bad mood? Who can make you laugh when you feel like you might burst out into tears at any second? Where can you go where you feel instant calm the second you step into that space? What song can give you a boost, validate your feelings, or offer some nostalgic joy?

We cannot always prepare for a bad day, a bad mood, or an unfortunate circumstance. But we can prepare a list of things to help us confront and combat these dementoresque scenarios. A patronus tool belt if you will.

A list of possible patronus:

  • A nearby park/or garden (nature heals, people!)
  • An oldies but goodies playlist
  • Your favorite lotion, candle, or incense scent (scent is the most influential of the 5 senses of the brains memory functions)
  • A best friend, partner, parent, or sibling
  • A funny YouTube clip
  • A stand – up act that never gets old
  • A “feels” playlist (ballads, Adele, Sam Smith, etc.)
  • Yoga! (some poses are used to instantly lessen feelings of anxiety, fear, and sadness)
  • Meditation – find a quiet space and catch some Zen (flute & drum music recommended)
  • Tactile products – Play-Doh, rice, sand, putty, water, soft blanket or carpet – anything to allow you to focus on your touch sense can be self- soothing
  • A hot bath or shower – wash the day away (calming scented soaps optional)
  • A cup of hot tea – chamomile, jasmine, and lavender are of the calming variety
  • Take a run or a walk on a trail or through your neighborhood.
  • Play with your pet! Pets are the best listeners.
  • CRY IT OUT. If crying helps you release – don’t be afraid to let those tears flow.

 

There are a many more options out there that might be right for you! I encourage you to explore what you can use as patronus. You might need different tools for different emotions, intensities and/or circumstances.

 

Finding Possibility in Gender Identity, Presentation, and AcceptanceGrace Counseling Lewisville Texas

Individuals who challenge the widely normalized and socially accepted binary presentations of gender are often considered “other” and forced to the margins of culture as “issues”, something to be “figured out” or “made sense of”. However unintentional or involuntary these actions may be – those who do not conform to the dichotomy of the main stream gender paradigm may feel as though they are a weight that must be bared or a person who is stripped of receiving respect in their true and heart-felt state of being. There is a void that has formed in society’s comfort zone, where intolerance, disrespect, and fear are found and love, acceptance, and understanding are missing.

“…They make us not only question what is real, and what “must” be, but they also show us how the norms that govern contemporary notions of reality can be questioned and how new modes of reality can become instituted. These practices of instituting new modes of reality take place in part through the scene of embodiment, where the body is not understood as a static and accomplished fact, but as an aging process, a mode of becoming that, in becoming otherwise, exceeds the norm, reworks the norm, and makes us see how realities to which we thought we were confined are not written in stone.”
   – from Undoing Gender by Judith Butler (pg. 29, Beside Oneself: On the Limits of Sexual Autonomy)

 

Assumptions

Making assumptions in the counseling room, the doctor’s office, or in other helping spaces sometimes feels unavoidable or automatic. We will all encounter individuals who live outside of one’s definitions of gender. So how do we practice in such a way that expresses compassion, respect, and ethical competence as we seek to understand with and what our client, friend, child, or student may still be trying to process?

Helping Professionals

It is crucial for us to begin to intentionally place ourselves in and endure existing in a state of not knowing. A place that is often uncomfortable, sometimes frightening, and almost always fraught with uncertainty. I believe as helping professionals we can all benefit from being uncomfortable in ambiguity, allowing our clients to come in and create the scripts and through lines of the space which we hold for them with kindness and interest.

By allowing such a space to be more free of expectations, we offer up room for our clients to fill. We hold a safe place for them to present, perform, and live in ways that honor their true essence. By doing this I believe that not only will our client flourish in the freedom of unconditional respect, but we will be given more opportunities to see the increase of growth, knowledge, and possibility in the relationship.

“Some people have asked me what is the use of increasing possibilities of gender. I tend to answer: Possibility is not a luxury; it is crucial as bread. I think we should not underestimate what the thought of the possible does for those whom the very issue of survival is most urgent.” – from
– from Undoing Gender by Judith Butler (pg. 29, Beside Oneself: On the Limits of Sexual Autonomy)

 

Below are resources for those who want to learn more about the present necessity not only for possibility, acceptance, understanding, but for advocacy and education about gender diversity.

  1. Multicultural and Social Justice Counseling Competencies from the Association of Multicultural Counseling and Development: https://www.counseling.org/docs/default-source/competencies/multicultural-and-social-justice-counseling-competencies.pdf?sfvrsn=20
  2. APA’s definitions of Gender Diverse and Sexual Orientation terms: https://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/sexuality-definitions.pdf
  1. Resources from Genderspectrum.org : https://www.genderspectrum.org/resources/

 

Resources: Butler, J. (2009). Undoing gender. New York, NY: Routledge.

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NEED TO REGROUP DURING THE WORKDAY?

Try this sequence and find your focus.

 


grace counseling therapeutic yogaHero Pose

  • Knees together; hands on knees
  • Hips to heels (you can put a cushion, towel, or blanket between your hips and feet if that is more comfortable)
  • Shoulders over hips; head over shoulders
  • Roll shoulders back
  • Slightly lift your chest
  • Take 3 deep breaths, filling up the belly and chest completely and then letting it all go on the exhale

 

 

 

 

Child’s Posegrace counseling therapeutic yoga

  • Slide your hands forward
  • Allow your belly to rest on the knees
  • Forehead reaches towards the mat
  • Press palms into the mat
  • Push hips back towards the heels
  • Take 5 long deeps breaths
  • Try to lengthen your spine on the inhales, by pushing back through the heels and slightly lengthening the neck
  • On the exhales, let your body melt down

 

 

Staff PoseTherapeutic Yoga Seq Kelbi

  • Sit up tall with your shoulders stacked over your hips and your head over your shoulders
  • Stretch your legs out straight or with a slight bend in the knee
  • Flex your feet, pushing your heels towards the front of the mat
  • Place your hands by yours hips
  • Roll your shoulders back and down
  • Slightly lift the chest
  • Breathe 3 long deep breaths here

 

 

 

Forward Fold

  • From staff pose, draw your knees to a slight bend – enough so you can grab your feet or shins
  • First, roll the shoulders back, look up – lengthening the spine
  • Then, allow your belly to come to the thighs
  • Your forehead may come to the knees or shins
  • Use your breath to help your body relax into this position
  • Stay here – 5 breaths

 

 

Seated Spine Twist – right side

  • Draw your right knee into the chest
  • Cross your right foot over your left leg
  • Ground both sit bones into the mat
  • Sit up tall; lengthening up through the spine
  • Reach the arms up; rotate the chest to the right
  • Bring your left arm around the right knee
  • OR hook the left elbow on the outside of the right knee
  • Your right hand will be planted firmly into the mat
  • Don’t crank into the pose
  • Use your inhales to lengthen and exhales to get your deeper into the posture
  • Breath here – 3 breaths

Seated Spine Twist – left sidegrace counseling therapeutic yoga

  • Repeat above steps on the left side
  • Each side might be different!
  • 3 breaths

 

 

 

 

Easy Pose

  • Cross leg seated position
  • One foot can be in front of the other
  • Shoulder over hips
  • Head over shoulders
  • Roll shoulders back and down
  • Hands rest gently on the knees

 

 

 

 

Cat PoseTherapeutic Yoga Seq Kelbi

  • In easy pose…
  • On an inhale, begin to draw the chest through the arms
  • Rolling the shoulders down and back
  • Slightly lifting the gaze upwards
  • On your exhale… Cow pose

 

 

 

 

Cow Posetherapeutic yoga grace counseling

  • On the exhale…
  • Rounding the spine
  • Allowing the chin to drop to the chest
  • Shoulders to come forward
  • Pushing the upper back away
  • Continue alternating between Cat/Cow for 10 breaths

 

 

 

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Come into Child’s Pose

 

 

 

 

Left side body Stretchtherapeutic yoga grace counseling

  • In child’s pose…
  • Begin to walk your fingers over to the right
  • Possible crossing your left hand over the right
  • Breath into the left side body for 5 breaths

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  • In child’s pose…therapeutic yoga grace counseling
  • Begin to walk your fingers over to the Left
  • Possible crossing your right hand over the left
  • Breath into the right side body for 5 breaths

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

For the rest of your break you can repeat the sequence, take meditation in easy pose, or simply lie down on your back for a short “yogi nap” in savasana.

 

 

 

 

 

Hopefully, you got what you needed!

 Stay tuned for more sequences that are designed to fit in your busy day!

 

 

It’s the Beginning of a Whole New Year… Feeling Disillusioned? Jaded? Disconnected? Foggy?

 

We all have experienced times where we simply go through the motions, finding minimal pleasure in a life where our schedule is maximized with responsibilities. The question is, however, what about the responsibility to ourselves? All over the globe, people of all different backgrounds, status, and life phases are searching for a way to get and stay connected, needed, and appreciated – But, in what ways are we sacrificing our ability to connect, meet our needs, as well as find appreciation and even gratitude for our whole self – mind, body, and spirit.

 

“What about the responsibility to ourselves?”

Turning our attention inward might sound impossible – even selfish. On the other hand, is trying to give away a self that we don’t take time to care for fully serving anyone else? “Self-care” a term used widely by helping professionals, may sound like shtick to build interest, but the concept of taking time to care for the self dates back centuries. Meditation, yoga, and quiet reflection (or similar practices) show up in all major world philosophies, religions, and spiritualities. Even scientist have found justification and usefulness of these behaviors by experimenting with brain maps, stress levels, and nervous system response measurements.

The irony lies in the facts. Getting quiet and still actually maximizes productivity and creativity! Practicing mindfulness daily builds stress tolerance, decreases feelings of sadness and being overwhelmed and increases experience of tranquility and contentment.

Finding a method of practice is not as simple as advertisements might suggest, but with a small commitment to turning inward, the needs of the body and the mind will become more clear.

As a counselor in training and a yoga instructor, I have found numerous evidence of the interdependence of body and mind, the necessity of maintaining those connections and the relevance that holds in our happiness. 

Wanting to try something new, find connection, or gain relaxation and mindfulness skills?  We are offering a yoga workshop near you!  Right here in Lewisville Texas at Grace Counseling Center we have yoga for beginners and advanced level practice.  Our instructors are RYT certified and can accommodate all levels. 

Call us for more information about relaxing therapeutic yoga, and yogic informed counseling sessions!

 

 

 

 

Who should see a dietitian?

What we eat and how often plays a significant role in how well our bodies are fueled. You may benefit from seeing a dietitian if you have any specific nutrition goals that you are trying to attain. If you do not have goals that you are working towards, a dietitian can help you set realistic goals that will help you optimize your health and identify any key nutrients that your diet may be lacking. If you or someone you know is battling an eating disorder, a dietitian is a key player in helping win the battle and regaining independence from food. If you have any special dietary needs such as diabetes, hypertension, food allergies, elevated cholesterol or triglycerides- a dietitian can also provide medical nutrition therapy. If you are currently in recovery for alcohol or drug addiction, it is not uncommon to find that there are deficiencies in your diet and cravings may be present. Through nutrition counseling, a healthy dietary pattern can be identified and a plan put into action to re-establish a normalized eating pattern.

What happens during an appointment with a dietitian?

During a comprehensive nutritional assessment, the dietitian will assess your nutrition status and diet history. She will then help you create a dietary plan that is individualized to meet your specific needs, as everyone is different. She will provide a nutrition education segment including tips on how to be successful. She will help guide you in setting realistic goals for yourself. The dietitian will also provide support between appointments, should you have any questions or concerns.

During a follow-up appointment?

During a follow-up appointment, the dietitian will discuss with you any concerns you may have had since your last appointment. She will also help you identify and overcome any perceived barriers that you feel may be keeping you from attaining your goals. She will then help you set new goals or determine if any of your goals may require a little more time to reach. She will also work to reassess any changes that may need to be made to your plan.